I knew it wasn’t going to be an awesome day the second I picked up my cell phone to disable my (second) alarm.
My Life Saver of a mother-in-law watches the kids for us on Mondays so that I can start the week building my new business without simultaneously worrying about molding minds or preserving the safety of two toddlers.
But today, my mother-in-law was sick. A few frantic texts later, and I had secured the help of “Auntie Brady” to hang with the kids for the important phone meeting I had on the books this morning.
No big deal, crisis averted, and on to the next hurdle. I decided to take the kids out for a coffee date and kill two birds with one stone: my morning coffee fix + kids’ breakfast in one fell swoop, all while feeling very treat-like and starting the day on a fun note!
Except.
Maddox didn’t want to wear the shirt I picked out for her, unless of course I allowed her to wear it as pants, which wasn’t really ever an option. When I forced her into the shirt like a normal almost-2-year-old (you know, arms through the arm-holes instead of both feet through the head hole), she began to throw a monster, only-a-red-head-is-capable-of-this-fury fit. She stormed from one end of the hallway to the other, red-faced and screaming, as I tried to coax and cajole her into shoes/out the door/into the car.
Eventually, a snack pack of Marshmallow Mateys (poor man’s Lucky Charms) normalized my youngest enough to get both kids out the door for our Fun Treat.
The trip to Starbucks was uneventful enough, until it came time to depart.
Anson, like a true gentleman, held the door for Maddox and I as we walked out to the car. My hands were full with all the kids’ treats + my purse + the car keys + my own drink, and Maddox took the opportunity to dart down the sidewalk toward my car, then juke right into the parking lot.
Maddox doesn’t stop when I call for her to wait. Because, she’s Maddox.
Anson’s gentlemanly gesture became an instant tripping hazard when I attempted to sprint after Maddox, who was now fearlessly about to saunter into oncoming parking lot traffic. I may or may not have gently shoved Anson out of my way before quickly unloading my armfuls of burdensome treats on the hood of my car and snatching Maddox into my arms right before she made it into the line of fire. A split second after I picked up Maddox, I felt a cold splash as my iced coffee fell off the hood of my car and exploded all over the back of me.
Maddox burst into tears, perhaps at being “rescued” or perhaps at the devastation behind me. “Coffee fall!” she moaned as she reached towards the upended and now lidless cup of liquid ambition spreading in a sad puddle across the asphalt. Anson had obediently “Waited Patiently For Mama On The Sidewalk” while all of this drama unfolded, and I wordlessly thank the dear sweet Lord for one child who actually follows instructions as I look Maddox in the face and explain why she cannot ever ever EVEREVEREVEREVER run into the parking lot without holding a hand.
It wasn’t until lunchtime that I had a chance to brew a pot of coffee at home. I slammed it down lukewarm, paired with my kids’ half-eaten grilled cheese sandwiches and gnawed-on apple slices, as I attempted to bang out the 4 hour project I’d blocked the afternoon out for in the 2-ish hours I could reasonably forecast for naptime.
Some days, you feel like the motherflippin’ Mom of the Century. And then there are days like today.
You can almost guarantee that the minute you think you’ve got it on LOCK, you’ll have a setback day to remind you that parenting is a journey and you’ve never arrived.
And you know what? I wouldn’t trade today for my BEST day pre-kids.
Because at naptime, Maddox grabbed my face with her two sweet, chubby hands, gave me a smooch, and held my cheek to her own while I sang “Maddox in the family.”
Because after naptime, Anson and I played several spirited games of “MATCH” and I realized he has a pretty impressive memory for a four-year-old.
Because before bedtime, we made cookie bars and read a new story and laughed our little tushies off trying not to blink during a staring contest.
These moments outshine the less-than-productive “work days” and the coffee-stained pants. I’ll crawl into bed tonight, bleary-eyed from too much computer time before bed and back sore from too much sitting cross-legged on the floor with the kids, and all I’ll think of before drifting off is the delicious sound of those two laughing.
That is, if the afternoon pot of coffee doesn’t screw me over.